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April: “I AM”

April, the beginning the new astrological calendar year when the Sun moves into Aries, the first house of the zodiac and Spring with the glorious rebirth and decorating of nature for  pure enjoyment and appreciation.

The First House is where you focus on YOU. How you show up in the world. How you are perceived. The ego is strong. Self-worth and confidence should be high. You should be feeling your power to accomplish whatever you desire.

My favorite quote for this house is the one by Marianne Williamson:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

Marianne  Williamson,   A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles”

You have the God-given Power, my dear!

But….

  • ·       Why don’t I feel this power?
  • ·       Why don’t I know that I can be the light for others as well as myself?
  • ·       How do I truly feel that power and not fear?

The real reason? You truly feel the power through love. It’s always about love. And that begins with loving yourself first in order to have enough for everyone else in your life that you care about.

And you have divine permission to do just that.

Here is where I need to point out a tool to use to honor yourself and reclaim your power. (It never went away; you just ignored it for a while.)

To honor, respect and love you, it’s important to set boundaries with those around you whether personal, family or professional. ALL boundaries!

YOU have the power to set those boundaries and honor your spirit with love and respect.

HOW do I set boundaries with people I work with or people I love?

You already know the answer. You just need clarity on the how!

My reading special for this month is Setting Boundaries Tarot Reading. It’s 8 cards and 30 minutes for half price. Now just $49!

bit.ly/2021boundaries

Live with the light, power and freedom that you deserve!

Love,

Donna

 

March Blog: The Power of Perseverance

PERSEVERANCE: The ability to keep doing something in spite of obstacles.

This is a powerful word that conjures up the image of someone never giving up and continuing the effort no matter what appears in their path.

Other words for perseverance are:

  •          Steadfast
  • ·        Persistence
  • ·        Purposeful
  • ·        Grit
  • ·        Tenacious
  • ·        Diligent
  • ·        Determination
  • ·        Endurance
  • ·        Drive
  • ·        Indefatigable

All good words yet they bring to mind the image of a lot of work and effort.

 How does this apply to the Law of Attraction when attracting what we desire is supposed to be easy and relaxed?

Perseverance and the Law of Attraction go hand in hand if you keep your focus on what you truly desire. The Law of Attraction works both ways. If you remain focused on the idea that you won’t receive or manifest your desire, and you achieve that, your perseverance will have paid off.

Is that what you want?

Focus and clarity of purpose is yours, not what someone else thinks you should have, do or be. It’s not a matter of pleasing someone else. This is all about you and your heartfelt desire to be, do or have whatever you want.

·        Be clear on what you want.

·        Be focused continuously on your desire.

·        PERSEVERE in your focus.

·        Never give up!! See it, hear it, smell it, touch it, taste it! FEEL it completely with all your senses!

Do you want that new car, new house, job, college fund for the kids, vacation? You pick! KNOW it’s yours!

CLARITY!                   FOCUS!                     PERSEVERANCE!

 

“Never, never, never give up.” Winston Churchill

And if you need some assistance in maintaining focus on your desires and goals, check out the reading special for the month of March: bit.ly/2021persevere

FEBRUARY: IT’S ALL ABOUT THE HEART!

It’s already February and time to focus on your heart. The heart is the center of the seven in body chakras, bridges heaven and earth, and generates the body’s most powerful and extensive rhythmic electromagnetic field. The electrical field produced by the heart is 60 times greater in amplitude than the brain and permeates every cell in the body.

WOW! Think about the power of your heart. When your heart is open, you are sending this beautiful energy out into the world and opening yourself up to allow more loving energy to come to you. Just saying the words or reading this feels so expansive and POWERFUL!

How you FEEL, your emotions, attract what you’re feeling to you. Like attracts like. This is the Law of Attraction in action and tells you that your feelings (heart) are even more powerful than your thoughts (brain).

What does your heart desire?

The key to a joyful life is to have an inner connection with feelings of love, joy, appreciation, and contentment.  As you love, you become a powerful magnet for love.

The most important love in your life is YOU! You must have a loving relationship with yourself in order to fully open up to your desires, dreams and intentions that feel SO good and make your heart sing.

LOVE IS THE ATTRACTION FOR ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE! That’s your heart!

When you connect through your heart, you look at life through a magical lens. You manifest faster with heart energy than mind energy.

Take time for you, a moment of self-care and self-love, and connect with your heart through this meditation:

  1. Sit in a quiet and comfortable location.
  2. Imagine your favorite flower at the center of your chest (heart).
  3. As you concentrate on your breath, imagine this flower beginning to open.
  4. When the flower is fully open, you see the center of the flower glowing with a radiant, divine light.
  5. Your heart is now open with love. This is your point of creating your desires.

A mantra for this precious space could be:

MY HEART IS OPEN TO GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE.

What does your heart desire? See this as a special time to create a loving future for yourself and those dear to you.

And take advantage of the special reading for this month, Connect with Joy, that guides you to discover where you block your joy and where you are open to it, where joy comes to you easily and where you need to open your heart to greater joy. This reading can be done just for you or you and a partner, whether romantic, personal, business or family. You’ll discover an even great depth of love and understanding with whomever the reading is done with, be it you or a partner.

HAPPY FEBRUARY! JOYFUL HEART!!

January 2021 Blog

Happy New Year!

2020 has been quite a year and that’s an understatement! I’ve made my list of the good things that have happened in 2020 so that I can bring only good thoughts, energy and vibration into 2021. My desire is to see 2021 be the best year ever!

Take the best and leave the rest.

That intention may appear to be a big desire or dream. It’s all up to me and how I choose to create 2021!

Whenever it’s time to write this blog, I always ask for guidance on what should be shared with me as the conduit of the message. This time it was a big one and it is the root of all that happens in life.

Above all else, there is LOVE! And in this case, it’s SELF-LOVE!

Does that sound selfish to you?

Maybe, yet how do you take care of all that you focus upon if you don’t take care of yourself first?

Have you noticed that there has been a lot of discussion about SELF-CARE this past year? No accident. Take a look at how spiritual energy flows, it first comes from your Higher Power, Source, Spirit, God, or whatever name you choose to give Creative Energy. The next in line or second is YOU! Then comes everyone else.

From this replenishing and renewing connection, we gain the energy and momentum to take care of all we need and want to take care of including those people we love, jobs, homes and even you!

This is the true order of the universe! It is NOT where you put yourself last.

Let’s take a look at how it feels to love and be loved in return. That feeling that fills your heart to overflowing, peaceful, secure, warming, expansive, safe and just plain good.

Do you love yourself that way or are you more critical and judgmental of how you feel, what you do, choices you make? How would it feel to love yourself in the same way that you love others?

When you surround and embrace self-love, you have nothing to prove. There is no judgment, blame, comparison or criticism because you know that you are fully in charge of YOU. No one can take that away from you!

There is no judgment, blame, comparison or criticism of you or anyone outside of you.

That’s true FREEDOM!

That’s true POWER!

How will you embrace this New Year 2021? Will you treat yourself with the same love that you have for others? Will you give yourself encouragement, laugh at your foibles and act with the confidence of being in charge?

Or do you choose victimhood and giving up on you?

You get to choose!

Love,

Donna

December 2020 Blog

What Will You Choose?

December is here! Whew! It’s been quite a year and we will soon see the beginning of 2021 and new beginnings for everyone.

There’ve been so many challenges and changes to life:

  • ·        You’ve learned to shelter in place, isolate or quarantine. You choose the word.
  • ·        You’ve learned the benefits to others of our wearing a mask.
  • ·        Masks have become a fashion statement!
  • ·        You’ve learned new ways to communicate with your loved ones or do business without being in person.
  • ·        You’ve learned that many things slowed down during the pandemic such as mail, less food items and, of course, toilet paper!
  • ·        You’ve been home schooling and possibly working from home simultaneously.

At the same time the above changes have brought about new ways of living:

  • ·        Quiet time at home with loved ones.
  • ·        Cooking foods that you’ve always wanted to try.
  • ·        Seeing your neighbors more even if it’s waving from the balcony or lawn.
  • ·        Time to actually have conversations with those living in your home such as your children or spouse/significant other.
  • ·        Reading
  • ·        Learning something new because you have the time such as a language, a skill, play an instrument, even knitting.
  • ·        Taking time to reconnect with you, who you are, and what you want to be when you grow up (no matter what your age)!

As we see the new normal coming into view in 2021, I know I want to spend more time with my grandson and son. Those hugs melt my heart. I’ll look forward to traveling again and going to events. All good things involving being with those I love.

The most important question is what do you want to keep doing once we return to a new normal?

  • ·        What have you been doing this past year that has been meaningful to you?
  • ·        What is it that really makes you feel good?
  • ·        What is it that you said pre-pandemic that you always wanted to do and now you have that time?

Everyone’s answers will vary. I invite you to think about what has made you happy through this past year and to keep it as part of your daily routine or your life moving forward. Is it greater communication with loved ones? A new skill? That novel you always wanted to read or maybe, write?

Whatever you choose, make it yours in 2021. Let it become a part of you, the better part of you.

Most importantly, do it with LOVE!

Happy December 2020!

 

 

November Blog: CHOICE

Choice!

That’s a really BIG word! It comes into your awareness so much right now.

·        Did I make the right choice?

·        What is the right choice?

·        Is this right for me?

These questions apply to everything!  I’m not going to discuss the obvious…the elections. I’m talking now about how we live life in general. Please allow me to share the insight that I arrived at recently.

It all started with a simple question:

Does this FEEL like the best choice for me?

Really? Yes, really. It’s as simple as that.

How does this feel for me? If I choose the other path, road or opposite option, how does that feel for/to me?

I’ve truly found it that simple because the choice I make in anything is really about what feels good for me.

Does that sound a bit selfish? Yes, it is. Yet isn’t that the path that we all should be taking?

What works best for me is also going to work best for those I love. Granted it may not be the best choice for those that do not truly understand or truly love me, but it is the best choice in the end.

A simple example for me was my lawn service. I’ve had a contentious relationship with the person doing my yard. He has a mind of his own and doesn’t seem to pay attention to what I really want. I was allowing it! That was a difficult pill to swallow! I was really and truly allowing him to do as he pleased by not honoring my own boundaries!

Another difficult awareness… After all, isn’t that what I teach!!

So, I did the best thing possible and turned it over to the Universe and as I finished up my walk, there was another lawn service at my neighbors’ home. This man was communicative and listened. He has been asked to perform service for many in my neighborhood because of his great service and follow through on requests.

Just what I had asked for!

This may seem like a simple and unimportant example, yet it was a big one for me. I made the choice to go with what feels good, not what someone else wanted me to do.

This is my litmus test for any decisions in my life now whether elections, service people, financial or business decisions, people in my life and more. And that feels GOOD!

(It also reminds me of the mantra of the 60’s: “If it feels good, do it!” Hmmmm, the hippy girl is still here!)

Happy November!

 

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